Teens don’t respond well to parents who shout, swear or insult them, according to a study published in Child Development. Not only does it usually not work, but it actually can spark depression.
The study, authored by Ming-Te Wang of the University of Pittsburgh, found that 13-year-olds who were the subject of lots of angry verbal discipline were more likely to exhibit symptoms of depression a year later. They were also far more likely to have problematic behaviors of their own: They’d be more likely to engage in vandalism and misconduct, for instance, and show more anger and aggression.
Sometimes teens, trying to cope with angry discipline, also often tune out their red-in-the-face parents. “This may explain why so many parents say that no matter how loud they shout, their teenagers don’t listen,” Wang says. (USA Today)
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